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first dating for gays

You have met someone for the first time and you are both interested in each other at this stage, this first meeting or date will be the trial for the rest of your relationship.  The time and place are very important issues when considering the location and type of meeting you want to have.

It is ok if you ask the guy to meet you  in..............at ........., ask politely in a way that can be refused if necessary or in the least the place and time changed if necessary.

Dont be agressive just be nice and polite.

If you are really shy and do not have good communication skills and find it difficult to express your self it is highly recommended to find help by participating in a self help or "Improve your communication"  work shop, these can be found on the Internet or in the local papers or yellow pages or alternatively you can ask you family doctor for help. 

Ok the guy has agreed to meet with you and the time and place has been decided and presumably it is a place like a coffee shop where you can both feel comfortable and can get to know each other.  Sit opposite your date and listen to what he is saying about himself pay attention to the small details and ask appropriate questions so that he knows you have been listening.

 It is also important to dress properly for the occassion, casual is suitable to a date at a coffee house and a suit and tie is suitable for a theatre or opera etc etc.

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It is recommended to call the other guy a day before the date just to check that the meeting is still on and that everything is ok. 

Make sure that you are not late for the date and if you are one of those people that are always late then start your preperations an hour before you usually would so allowing for traffic or any other unforseen reasons one can be late for a date.  It is much better to be early than late for a date.

Sometimes a first meeting can lead to sexual activity so be prepared.  This will happen if both sides are willing and are attracted to each other.  If you are looking for a long term relationship and not just a sexual encounter it is advisable to abstain from sex on the first date, especially if it does not seem right. However it is still highly advisable to come armed with condoms as you never know what could happen.

Most important dont forget that first impressions are usually the long lasting impressions, so relax and be yourself and try not to over impress someone.

All that is left to say now is good luck and have a good time.